Once the last song has been sung, the curtains have closed, the flowers have been seen, it’s hard to know what to do next. Here’s our guide on how to Arrange a Wake.
A wake is an informal event that takes place after a ‘traditional’ funeral service. Where a funeral (typically combining the ‘Service’ and the ‘Committal’) is generally a more formal occasion, the Wake serves as a gathering of the deceased’s friends and relatives to come together, chat and reminisce.
If you’re having a less-formal funeral for your person, where people are welcome to chat and mingle during the ‘service’ anyway, you may not feel the need for another gathering.
If, however, you’re going down the ‘traditional’ route, a Wake can be a great way to let off steam. Given the more intimate, familiar nature of this event, it’s more likely that Uncle Dave will share that story about Dad that he promised to “tell you when you’re older”…!
Pick a venue.
You’ve got a few options. Naturally, there’s pros and cons to each.
– Down the Local
– In a hall
– At home
– Outdoors
This will likely depend on the time of day the funeral is. Here’s a rough guide to etiquette, and things to take into consideration…:
MORNING – 9am – 11am
– Tea, coffee & pastries
– ‘Proper’ lunch
MIDDAY – 11am – 2pm
– Light buffet lunch
– Sit-down meal
– Canapes
AFTERNOON – 2pm – 4pm
– Afternoon tea
– Dinner/evening meal
– Drinks
Regardless of how the wake takes shape, perhaps you’d like to try the following:
– A picture collage of your loved one – incorporate a “Guess The Year” game (from rocking the classic Farrah Fawcett ‘do, to carbon dating by the size of shoulder pads…?)
– A playlist of all their favourite music
– A Guestbook for people to sign with a memory of your loved one
– A collection pot for your person’s charity
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